Voluntary male chastity is something of a puzzle for many couples, because at first glance it’s hard to see why a man volunteers for his partner to tightly control his orgasms, and most people new to male chastity assume that is somehow ‘forced’ on a man.
But the truth is… ALL male chastity is…
Voluntary Male Chastity
Why do I say this?
Because it would be impossible for a woman to force a man to wear a chastity device against his will, since most men are bigger and stronger than most women.
Yes, I know you read a lot of stories about women ‘forcing’ their men into chastity with threats of divorce or blackmail, but that’s it: stories. When it comes down to it, the man always has a choice, even if that choice is to leave her or let her leave him.
Now, with that out of the way, let’s look at the FANTASY of forced chastity versus voluntary chastity.
Most men and women like to have the illusion of strength in their chastity game. It is particularly powerful for the man who may well be in a powerful and privileged position in real life. For him, one facet is escape from the pressures of everyday life.
And for her, it’s an opportunity not only to please her man (and what woman doesn’t enjoy the thrill of exercising her feminine power in safe and controlled environments), but it also means she can change the approach to sex in the relationship. about her own needs and wants.
And that is why many, many men will willingly submit to voluntary chastity and play the “forced chastity” game. In fact, most of the time it is a man’s secret desire to be controlled in this way, and he has to convince his partner to try it (but when he succeeds and she has those keys… and he doesn’t know when or IF she’s going to have an orgasm again, she really starts to wonder what she’s gotten herself into.)
So there we have it: all male chastity is voluntary chastity, and anything beyond that is just fantasy.
And if you’re tired of all the nonsense and hype, all the ridiculous stories about male chastity being forced on men, and you’d rather hear the truth from a genuine couple who lives 24/7. after…
