Is it possible to make a guy regret losing you? Yes, it is, and you don’t even have to be mean or vindictive about it. If you try to use revenge as a way to make him regret losing you, then he’ll just come back to bite you in the end. If you’re still madly in love with your man even though he dumped you or he did something that forced your hand and you dumped him, then there are ways to make him beg you to take him back. This is how you can make him think about you constantly and make him want you desperately.
The first thing you will need to do is break contact for a while. This should generally be a period of 2-3 weeks. During this time, you won’t be calling, texting or emailing your man, and if he tries to get back to you, then you either simply don’t respond or you respond by telling him that you think it’s best if you both have some space right now. If you have to see him because you have the same classes, the same job, or hang out at the same places, then be courteous and friendly, but don’t engage in long conversations.
Breaking off contact is the first step in making a guy regret losing you because you need to make him miss you. If you’re not talking to him, it will drive him crazy thinking about where you might be and what you might be doing. You will be on his mind constantly and he will miss every minute that he is not with you.
You have to be strong with the no contact rule, because if you text him back, call him, email him, or leave him messages on his Facebook and MySpace pages, then he can’t really miss you because you’re still around. Also, never go near him if you are emotionally distracted. You have to stay strong and confident if you want to make him regret losing you and be desperate to get you back. Seeing that you are fine and happy without him will make him lose control and make him want you all over again.
If he dumped you, then he may think that he has all the power in the relationship. He probably expects you to be sad, lonely, and depressed without him. Make him want you by hanging out with friends and having fun. You don’t feel sad and depressed. He won’t be able to bear the thought of you hanging out with other people having fun and being happy. When he starts to feel like he can’t have you, then he’ll start to love you again.
After a while, when he starts to regret losing you, he will try to contact you, but don’t give up just yet. If you decide to answer the phone, be polite, but keep conversations short. Keep the power dynamic in your favor by being the first to end phone calls. To make a guy regret losing you, you have to drive him crazy thinking about you and what he has to do to get you back. When he wants to talk to you or hang out, and you just give him a little bit of your time, then he will keep craving you more and more because he is not getting enough of you.
When things get to that point, you will be in full control of the situation.
