You are a good girl? Maybe that’s why you’re still single. When I say “nice” girl, I don’t mean respectful, considerate of others, a loyal friend, etc. When I say “nice” girl, I mean a woman who overcompensates men long before they’ve earned it. She cooks him a four star meal and serves it to him on a golden platter, buys her favorite name brand shirts, drives two hours to get her exotic chocolate dipped strawberries, all on the second date! OK ladies, we’ve all been there. Desperately doing everything we can to hold onto a man because we don’t think we’re good enough and doing everything we can to keep the relationship going at all costs. As shown? The guy never calls you back. We have all been there at some point in our lives.
Here’s the lesson: Anything you chase in life gets away. Everything you squeeze with clenched fists slips through your fingers. When it comes to men, this is especially the case. Why? Because you feel that you do not value yourself very much. He feels that you are trying to make up for your unworthiness by giving him things early in the relationship. A woman is also desperate when she is overcompensating.
According to the Rules, a “Creature Unlike Any Other”, on the other hand, will do the opposite. She values herself enough to know that Hears she is lucky that she has chosen to be with to the. She can take it or leave it! That means she doesn’t cook gourmet meals for him for the first 6 months of her relationship. In any case, she will feed him hotdogs on a bun with ketchup, and her dazzling smile. For dessert, she won’t make tiramisu. Rather, she will serve you a hostess Twinkie, again with a smile. After six months, she can serve him hamburgers and fries made from ground beef that she bought at the grocery store down the street. He will appreciate it more, because she didn’t give him everything in advance!
As women, we must learn to share one Jelly Bean at a time at the beginning of a relationship. A woman must set the pace of the relationship, especially at the beginning. Why? Men love instant gratification. The first thing a man sees when he sees a woman is her physical attributes. If you give him your body, your mind, your soul, your money and your devotion, all on the second date or even the first 6 months of dating, he will lose appreciation for you because he didn’t have to earn those things. of you.
So remember, you are the prize. If you keep that concept front and center in your mind at all times, you’ll start acting like a “creature unlike any other” and then he’ll treat you like the girl of his dreams. Fake it until you make it if this feeling doesn’t come naturally to you! Until next time, remember, keep him mad at you, not mad at you.
