We learned earlier that in order to flirt with a man in a way that makes him feel like fireworks, you must embrace and manifest the power of charm.
How do you learn to be charming?
Most people believe that charm is an ability that some people are born with naturally. This is because the personality would make some appear to have more charisma than others.
Think carefully about the people you think have charming personalities. The main feature is the POWER to attract. The power to attract is not an action performed only through behavior, it is behavior in action. In other words, charm manifests itself in behavior, but behind the behavior is a learned ability to become like a magnet.
If you want to bring a man to his knees, you must learn the charm skill until it becomes a natural part of your personality. You can’t do this without practice and you can’t just practice on the men you’re attracted to. It must become YOU. This becoming begins with the decision to never give your power to a man, but to contain it and exude it where he feels it like fire in his bones.
You have to believe that you can and see yourself being a great flirt. If you can’t hold this mental image until it creates the belief that you are a powerful magnet for men, you won’t be successful at flirting.
Many will tell you to blink your eyes or flash a big smile, but without the essence of power you’ve cultivated within, it won’t sustain it. A smile is great, but if there’s nothing behind it, it can’t get under a man’s skin. To get under a man’s skin and make him think about you for hours on end, you have to be able to execute the behavior along with the inner belief.
The place where most women fail is trying to execute the behavior without first forming a belief that they are powerful, so they rely on powerless actions to get a reaction, like playing mind games.
You can’t continually think thoughts of panic, fear, or anxiety around dating or commitment and expect to get a man’s attention or commitment. He will sense your insecurity, especially if you have a habit of pretending to be confident.
You want to become the primer and paint to draw an image in his mind about you and to do this, you need to practice your inner game before winking at him.
The next time you want to get a man’s attention, do this:
1. Think of yourself as THE most desirable creature in the universe. See yourself as a seductive jewel, a wonderful beauty and a modern mermaid.
2. While keeping this thought in place, try to flirt. Open with a warm smile, lock in the eyes and then look away or wave and then wink dangerously.
You will immediately notice the difference when you send powerful waves of desirability as a signal to your subconscious mind instead of insecure signals that have no power to really capture you.
Just remember, the power that comes through your actions must first find its home in you.
