To be great, don’t just think about it, do it. It’s scary but it’s very exhilarating. Remember that people are not needy or desperate. Instead, try to solve problems yourself whenever you can. This quality attracts people.
Spending some time alone is also great. If someone hasn’t called you back, rest. No need to follow up with annoying text messages. Give people their space and they will respect you much more. Be yourself. It will be something that other people will admire. You are unique and you don’t need to join one click. Make your own friends.
Live life for who you are. Don’t lose sight of yourself or your morale. Own your personality. Remember that we are all human and we try to accept each other despite all the flaws and qualities we have, why not accept yourself as the most important person in the world for you?
What essentially makes you great is your identity. Try to find your talent: sports, music, art, whatever. People will notice your passion and respect you for it. Practice self-disclosure. The more you reveal yourself, the better you understand yourself. Self-disclosure happens slowly.
Be kind, but not overly anxious. Many people find someone who is overly anxious annoying. Try not to impose yourself on people. Be a good talker. Don’t dominate the conversation. It is not necessary to share a similar story in all scenarios. Just listen and briefly comment on the other person’s story.
Be a good listener. False enthusiasm will seem cruel. If you’re stuck, remember the golden rule. Most people want to talk about themselves. Wait for the right moment to comment.
Be playful! Joking with other people. Chorus of using too many colloquialisms. This can make you appear “fake” or unable to understand your respected language. Speak normally, clearly and confidently. Use humor. Great people know how to use humor to ease any situation.
Learn to laugh at yourself. You can be great and you can be too great. Don’t be that person. Talk loud. Observe people who are “cool”; They usually speak confidently and clearly, at a good pace. They don’t chat quickly. They say what they mean, and they mean what they say. If you express your opinion and people disagree, don’t worry. However, make it count. Don’t shout your opinion just to be heard.
Keep your humor. Learn to deal with people. Don’t get angry or frustrated. Being cool is natural. It is easy to do. Be confident. People like people who don’t try, but still succeed. How does it work? Take a deep breath. Don’t lose your cool. Keep calm. Don’t use bad behavior to get attention. You should never substitute negative attention for being really cool.
Avoid arguing. When you’re great, you realize that winning an argument is pointless. When you know you’re right, you just know. Remember that people are your equals. Even a group of people is equal to you. Remember that people are your equals. Even a group of people is equal to you. They should be treated the way you should be treated. But always know that it is for a reason, be willing to find out what the reason is as long as you want to be respected. Understand that some people won’t understand.
Have faith in your friends. There’s a reason they surround you. Life doesn’t work that way. Do not be afraid to be different. Insecure people will sometimes get jealous of you. Be aware of yourself. In terms of composition; be smiling, stand/sit upright (makes you look and feel more confident), smile generously, be courteous and considerate, etc.
Present yourself in a positive way. Walk with good posture and look people in the eye. Smile. Fit! Eat healthy too. You will see results if you work hard. Know that you can never please everyone. People have millions of ways to get under your skin. Learn to detect them and become immune. Be happy with yourself and do what you like.
Project confident body language. Find your own style. You don’t have to follow trends to be cool; you just have to be able to look comfortable and happy in whatever you’re wearing.
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