Follow these tips and suggestions mentioned below and say no to high blood pressure, high tone, sore throat, and emotional breakdown.
Here’s how you can earn your child’s trust without having to yell, frown, or bribe!
- Set your expectations correctly and be consistent with them – To start, let your child understand what is good or bad and set clear and exact expectations from the beginning. Once this is done, make sure you never ignore bad behavior. Sticking to its rules is very important to helping your child realize that a violation is always a violation, no matter what. Therefore, ignoring your child’s temper tantrums on the grounds that they are sick is certainly unnecessary and unacceptable. Therefore, never let your rules weaken.
- Good behavior deserves recognition – As important as it is to let your child understand that something bad will not be tolerated, it is critical to help him recognize the fact that you will always support and encourage good behavior. When they are appreciated for their good works, they will do it often. So one of the best positive parenting techniques is to show your child that he is good, to help him stay that way.
- Never resort to bribery – Now this is something that most parents don’t follow. You may think that tempting your child with his favorite chocolate or candy might help him get rid of his tantrums for now, but you need to understand that by doing so you are inviting a critical problem to avoid a short one. All the child will understand from this is: be mean and get a reward! Therefore, avoid bribing your child at all costs.
- Talk to your son and listen to him too – Another important thing is to “be there” with your child. Most of the time it has been observed that children misbehave just to get the attention of their parents. So instead of giving them a chance to do it, why aren’t you alone with them in the first place? One of the positive tips for parents is to always maintain proper eye contact with your child while communicating with him and to be extremely kind and responsive. Don’t forget that non-verbal communication can be a great tool to help your child understand your love for him. So, use it properly and gift those smiles and hugs quite often.
- Take care of yourself too – There is no denying the fact that you need to take good care of your child, but while you do, don’t forget about yourself. Understand that if you are tired or bored, you will not be able to guide your child well and take care of him in the right way. Therefore, eat a healthy diet and get plenty of rest. If the need arises, you can even enlist the help of your family and friends to care for your child in the best possible way.
Always remember: the way you behave with your child will determine and affect the way you treat yourself in the future, and perhaps forever. So, exercise positive parenting to create a positive human being, one who is full of life, loving, and genuine.
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